What kind of girls do boys like the most? ——Data analysis of hot topics on the entire network in the past 10 days
Recently, discussions on "boys' mate preferences" have surged on social media and forums. By analyzing the entire network data in the past 10 days (including Weibo, Zhihu, Douban, Tieba and other platforms), we have summarized the following structured conclusions, using data to tell you the female characteristics that contemporary boys are most concerned about.
1. Top 5 characteristics that are most popular in discussions across the Internet

| Ranking | trait keywords | frequency of occurrence | Positive review rate |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Cheerful personality | 18,742 times | 89% |
| 2 | Independent and confident | 15,326 times | 92% |
| 3 | empathetic | 12,885 times | 87% |
| 4 | Clean appearance | 11,203 times | 85% |
| 5 | have common interests | 9,647 times | 83% |
2. Comparison of preferences of boys of different ages
| age group | Top 3 most concerned traits | Discussion proportion |
|---|---|---|
| 18-22 years old | Good looking, lively and cute, good at dressing up | 32% |
| 23-28 years old | Compatible personalities, consistent outlook, and self-motivated | 41% |
| 29-35 years old | Gentle and considerate, able to take care of the house, emotionally stable | 27% |
3. Unexpected anti-traditional characteristics
Data analysis shows that the following traits that are traditionally believed to be "disliked by boys" have received more positive reviews than expected in the past 10 days of discussion:
| Traits | Positive review rate | Examples of typical comments |
|---|---|---|
| financial independence | 94% | "Girls who can make their own money are more attractive" |
| Be assertive | 91% | "I don't like girls who only agree" |
| Moderately clingy | 88% | "It makes people feel insecure if they don't need me at all." |
4. Obvious regional differences
Through IP positioning analysis, there are significant differences in the preferences of boys in different regions:
| area | most valued traits | mention rate |
|---|---|---|
| first tier cities | career development potential | 67% |
| New first-tier cities | Compatibility with living habits | 58% |
| Second and third tier cities | family values | 72% |
| Fourth and fifth tier cities | Be filial to your elders | 81% |
5. Differences in social media platforms
The focus of discussions on different platforms is quite different:
| platform | focus of discussion | heat index |
|---|---|---|
| Shape conditions | 8.5 | |
| Zhihu | spiritual fit | 9.2 |
| Douban | Matching interests | 7.8 |
| Tieba | actual feelings of getting along | 6.9 |
in conclusion:
1.Personality factors transcend appearanceIt has become the most valued trait among contemporary boys, especially among those over 23 years old.
2.Independence and traditional gentlenessRather than being opposites, data shows that traits that are compatible with both are the most popular
3. Boys’ preference presentationObvious age stratification, the concept of marriage and love changes significantly with maturity
4.Economically developed areasPay more attention to development potential,traditional areasPay more attention to family attributes
5. Social media platformscontent tonalityWill significantly affect users’ expression tendency
The data collection time range is from X month X to X month X, 2023. A total of 28,593 valid discussion posts and more than 500,000 comment data were analyzed. It should be emphasized that all data reflect online discussion tendencies, and actual mate selection may be affected by more complex factors.
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